Working from home

Lord. Some weeks, I think the only thing that gets me through, is the fact that I get to work from home occasionally.


I work in an area of the building where there is no way to see outside. No natural light. If it is a snowstorm or sun-shiny day, I will not know the difference. This goes against everything that is me. If I could work in the open air everyday and still make a living, I would be doing it.

So when I am working remotely, I’ll find some way to feel that breeze on my skin. Only 15 to 20 years to retirement yall! I need something to get me through these weeks.

— Namaste

P.S. . . . and the Budster loves to have buddyme home too so he can lay in the sun.



Bicycling to Work

bikeI’ve always wanted to live close enough to my work to be able to bike there. The thought of leaving a smaller footprint on the earth by bicycling somewhere I go five days a week has appeal to me. Also appealing, is the drive at the busiest time of day is a major dislike of mine, so why not slow it down and enjoy the commute.

For the past year, I’ve lived within three miles of my work. Where I live, we celebrate May as Bike Month and are encouraged to use this month to bike to work. The perfect storm.

Day 1. May 1. It’s pouring. I do it anyway with slicker over my backpack and ball cap to keep the rain off my face. I do it. My jeans and underwear stay wet until noon. But. I did it.

Day 2. Beautiful cool morning. I feel like a kid riding to school. I notice how awake and good I feel at 9am.

Day 7. Flat tire on the way to work. Had to walk half of the way so late and sweating.

Day 10. Worked from home. Scared away by rain chances.

Day 15. F it. I drove.

Day 20-30. It was unseasonably hot. As in, hot at 7am hot.

I’m so glad I rode to work for Bike Month, but there were negatives. I sweat too much. The day’s first half hour was me mopping sweat off myself while I cooled down. It didn’t help that it is up hill the entire way to work. However, the ride home was relaxing and a great transition to my real life. Another negative is the time it takes to not only bike there, but secure your bike, change out of your bike clothes, and do it all over again at the end of the day.

The positives outweigh the negatives and I plan to continue riding to work regularly. I love how I felt at 9am. I really had gotten my heart pumping already and it was so easy to fit exercise into my life without it taking up a great deal of time.

Last summer, I spent two hours after work three days a week riding my bike to get in shape. This year, my daily shorter rides, but on more hills, got me in just as good shape and were much more enjoyable.

I got to know the neighborhood dogs. 🙂 I got to know the kids on their bikes riding to school. I smelled the Spring flowering bushes; felt every bump; and waved at people watering their flowers or walking their dogs.

I wish more people used the bike for transportation where I live. In my office building of nearly 3,000, mine is the only bike in the bent and scraped up bike rack. Compare this with say Copenhagen, Denmark, where 50% of the population bike to work or school daily. And, 90 percent of Denmark’s population own a bike while only 56 percent own a car.¹

I really didn’t wear makeup and couldn’t fix my hair.  I guess this is the reason more women don’t bike to work. It was freeing yes, but I do admit that I felt my professionalism could be considered compromised. If it was more accepted, I think it would change America’s beauty standards.

So with this past weekend being the official start to summer, plan to do something new these months to reinvent yourself just a little. And, be sure to let me know what those things are.

— Namaste


¹ City of Copenhagen, The Technical and Environmental Administration Traffic Department. Copenhagen City of Cyclists: Bicycle Account 2012. 2013.


Work-Life Balance

Have you heard this yet?

Work. Sleep. Family. Fitness. Friends.      Pick 3.

Randi Zuckerburg (sis of Mark, Facebook fame), call’s this the “entrepreneur’s dilemma” according to her 2011 tweet.  Lately, I’ve seen this written about often.

The concept says a person can focus on three of the five, but can’t give sufficient time/energy/focus to all five.  I agree.  It isn’t a concept that is for entrepreneurs only.  We can’t have it all — something has to give.  And, this three-out-of-five concept is such a concise, simple description of what has been true for me for years.

Out of the five, I pick sleep, family, and fitness.  Believe me; I’m working, but I’m not dedicating extra time to grow a business or putting in exorbitant effort to get ahead in my profession.  Likewise, I have friends but cultivating many friend relationships, has never been my focus.

When I say, I “pick” sleep, family, and fitness, it all has happened naturally, subconsciously — completely without me knowing I was picking.

Sleep. I’m a person who needs a lot of sleep and values sleep over getting up early or staying up late to hang with friends.

Family. I have four kids and while they were in my house, I always said I didn’t have time for friends. Now, that the kids are out of the house, it still is true because keeping up with the lives of grown children, is actually more work.

Fitness. If you would have unexpectedly asked me if I focus on fitness, I’d have said no. However, looking at my time and what I don’t let get derailed with the other two life silos, I pick fitness.

So what three have you picked?