In August and October 2016, I had two hip replacement surgeries. Since I was only 52, it was a surprise to my friends and family. For me, I had know a long time that new hips were inevitable.
I had the best orthopedic surgeon! The recovery was not bad (although I was more cranky with the second surgery #tiredofhurting), with me back to work in a week-and-a-half. I was up walking almost immediately and the awful pain was gone. More due to a newer way of doing the surgery, called direct anterior hip replacement where the doc goes through two muscles so there is less damage from which to recover, than any rehab I had to do. Check out the 23 minute video of the surgery. So awesome.
I had lived three years in misery – why? I wasn’t scared of surgery, or trying to pretend it wasn’t happening. Probably the only thing that I was scared of were the medical bills. I have good medical insurance I pay through my employer, but I knew my finances couldn’t even take the out-of-pocket shock from all the directions a surgery incurs – anesthesiologist, surgeon’s office, hospital, drugs, etc. If you are in this situation, just have the surgery, go on a payment plan, and if you are like me, you will have paid off those beauties in five to six months.
Interesting things I learned:
- If you get a new body part, for the rest of your life, you’ll have to tell your dentist before any appointments, even just cleanings. The dentist will need to put you on antibiotics before the appointment because if there is any infection having to do with the dentist procedure, it could cause that infection to attack the new joint.
- The titanium joint will set off metal detectors at the airport, etc.
- Before joint replacement surgery, you wash in an antiseptic soap all over your body and put an antibiotic drop under your tongue, for three days before the surgery. This rids the body of natural bacteria growing on your skin.
- #dawgsinthehouse make for great recovery buddies. #neverleftmyside
All of us in the working world have had to endure the training videos on different topics to keep our employers compliant to a law somewhere. Maybe it was a fast food chain as a kid, or last week at corporate headquarters.
I’ve worked for companies that were always talking about how wonderful they were to their workers. However, if you were a worker, your opinion differed. One of the worst examples in my life, is a business who would fire large groups of good people twice a year like clockwork. The old man at the helm, believed in “trimming the fat” and getting rid of 10 percent of their around 300 workforce per year. That is 30 people a year.
Fast forward to my present full-time position. I knew I was working at a different kind of place in the first week of working there, and I hadn’t watched any videos. I saw transgender, openly gay, nationalities of every kind. Loved it. Also, all the walls were filled with original artwork – supporting thousands of artists. Impressive.
This past week, I watched a Diversity and Inclusion video that was so nicely done. The message was so spot on. It isn’t enough to welcome diversity, but a conscious choice to practice inclusion to all people. All people should be their authentic self where ever they work. It’s so nice when Companies get it right.
I’ve been in the same book club for over 15 years. It started, with me logging into MeetUp to find like-minded readers. The people I interact with once a month are like no others in my circle of friends and that is what makes them so special to me.
They have become friends, but the only thing I know about some of them is their first name and what they think about the books we read. The discussions are always invigorating. If you are a reader and aren’t in a book club yet, seek one out. It is well worth the effort.
I’m a constant reader and Goodreads user. Here are some “book club” books I’ve read in the past three months. If they look good to you, check them out. (See what I did there.) 🙂
Ready Player One took me back to the 80’s with the descriptions of the computer/video games. It was smart and thought provoking story based in the year 2044. The lonely world depicted, can be compared to the present day trends the world is moving towards. It combines nerdy computer speak with likeable characters. I really enjoyed the read.
I’m not going to suggest the next book because although I enjoyed it, it wasn’t a knock out. Also, the majority of my book clubbers had a strong dislike for the book. The Miniaturist is set in Amsterdam and this is what saved it for me. It was nice to learn about the city in the 18th century. The second half was disappointing and the ending was a LARGE disappointment.
If you want to laugh at a great book, pick the Relic Master. This is about a sixteenth-century relic hunter and the artist Albrecht Dürer who conspire to fabricate Christ’s burial shroud. The history is amazingly correct, but the dry humor is the BEST. I highly recommend this book.
I’ve thought of this past election often. I’m sure you have too, what with our current president dominating the media. I have my own theories of why D.C. and the press got it so wrong. The Press and our dear politicians have talked to each other so much, the same opinions went around in circles.
D.C. Democrats loved Hillary. A certain kind of woman, loved Hillary. And, the two groups couldn’t see outside themselves to those who would vote for ANYONE other than Ms. Clinton. In 2008, I caucused for the first time. While I went in supporting a different candidate, in our caucus, ultimately people’s vote for Obama was a vote against Hillary.
Republicans have been fractured since the Tea Party rose up to divide ultra conservative Republicans from the moderates.
The progression of feelings in the Midwest went from frustration, vindication, through disillusionment. Frustration during the election. Vindication when Hillary failed. Disillusionment after Trump took office and made cabinet appointments along with decisions based on what could benefit him and his cronies the most.
For years, the Midwest’s straight-forward, brevity, and practicality attitudes had yielded a desire for a business man to run for President of the United States. Get rid of the politicians who connive and lie their way through their lives. This was the answer. No wonder they threw a vote in the direction of the first businessman they could, during an election with no good choice.
Today, the troubling point is the Press and D.C. are still getting it wrong. We are watching here in the middle. There are well respected newspapers getting down to Trumps level, instead of reporting on the declining democracy worldwide. The wars we are fighting. The underemployment of millions. Our poverty. North Korea. Let’s stop talking about tweets and the constant lies falling from D.C. Let’s start exploring the steps we as a Nation can be making to move the needle.